Friday, 25 December 2015

The logic behind happiness...

Well...
It's a very big question that what makes us happy in life ....

Most of the people say happiness comes from person's ownself ...
It's right we can make ourselves happy but the high percentage of our happiness is dependent on others who are close to us, yes we can find happiness but most importantly our ways of happiness can be highly found from the people who are our closers, whom we love....
Because we are humans!! We are concerned to emotions, feelings and love.. These are shared things hence the happiness comes from them ..
So i must say our happiness is shared thing!! If we make happy others by giving support and love then ultimately we become happy by getting support and love in return .... 
Hence please share your love and support to each other, give more value to those who value you...this is the ultimate way for all our happiness....

Wednesday, 16 September 2015

Homes or hostels??

As Being human, homes are our best and most favourite place where we feel comfortable & spend time with family .. 
But now a days do we really think our homes are our really homes! Do we spend time with family members, parents  & siblings ! Do we really feel our presence in home ! Do we really enjoy at home! 
It is really very hard to say YES for such queries! What i've observed it is just mere physical appearance of us at our homes ! Our homes have become hostels for us !! Where we live, eat, become fresh just; we actually don't spend time there ... At home, all members seperately sit at their rooms, use their cell phones or laptops, use social sites all the time, do continuous chat with others who are too distant but donot chat with family members who are sitting behind.... 
Our homes have just become a place which can make us convenient as to being around all over the world rather being around with the family members in same home!!! 
It is just a worse kind of a thing, i mean what can we get or achieve if we can't even achieve the heart of our closers our family members & can't make our homes as real homes!!
Home is like a paradise for us please keep it as it is in real rather changing its nature into bullshit hostels or mere plateform !!!! Please think over it....

Tuesday, 4 August 2015

I've learned..

In life we learn so many things atleast life is all about learning ...
& I've learned...
-Not to expect too much from any one except from Mother because her love is unconditional
-We can't make people understand our feelings or situation, people always perceive & think by their perspective not ours
-No matter what the situation is today, but life does go on ! Having a faith on ALLAH Almighty, being grateful can make me cope up with situation and enable me to get hope & confidence for better tomorrow 
-Appreciate those who tell the truth even it is worst one because such people are atleast not fake 
-Understanding is main thing, if it is absent in any relation then the love is incomplete
-Never make youself too much depend on any one, try to make your things to be done by yourself
-Giving respect to some one doesn't mean that the person deserves respect, it shows your image that you are respectful
-I can't count on others to respect my feelings if i respect theirs
-Being good person doesn't mean that others will also be good, it is just that you have control over yourself and have inner peace. As for others you can only choose to accept them or walk away
-Share happiness to all, but sadness with only one who really understand and listen to you and That is only 1 "Almighty ALLAH"
-Try to find ways for happiness

Whatever you have learned share it in comments..this can be the way for my & all of ours learning ..:)


Saturday, 1 August 2015

Inspirational quotes about life..

Life ---- a dream, a soul to live ...
Most authors have given their views about it, following quotes are some of them..

** Find a place inside where there is joy, and the joy will burn out the pain (Joseph Campbell)
** Positive anything is better than negative nothing (Elbert Hubbard)
** To succeed, you need to find something to hold on to, something to motivate and inspire you (Tony Dorsett)
** Believe that life is worth living and this belief will help to create the fact (William James)
** Life is not problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced (Soren kierkegaard)
** Life isn't about finding yourself, but to create yourself (George Bernad)
** Life is dream for wise, game for the fool, a comedy for rich & tragedy for poor (Sholom Aleichem)
** In the end, it is not years in life to count but it is life in your years (Abraham Lincolin)
** We know what we are, but know not what we may be (William Shakespeare)



Thursday, 30 July 2015

Psychological facts about human behavior

Human behavior is a very chaotic phenomenon, it is impossible or most difficult to understand the behavior of people.. But many psychological studies suggest that human behavior is affected by personality traits, attitude, emotions or motives..
Based on such science following are some interesting facts about human behavior...
1) Introverts can become as good communicators when they find special people to talk than extroverts
2) Boredom is not always negative, it is evident that boring people are tend to do interesting things than those who are not bored
3) Those who have low self-esteem or self-determination are more likely make others feel ashamed or embarrassed
4) 50% of happiness in life is genetically detemined & can't altered, 10% is determined by circumstances as education,income,home etc while 40% of happiness is determined by person's own outlook to life events it depends upon his reactions and way to live life and handling the situations
5) The intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hairs
6) The people in anger tend to make more efforts to get things because anger strives to possession
7) Those who spend more time on internet are more likely lonely, depressed and thinker
8) The people with high IQ tend to stay up late night because the mind increases stimulation, get alert and is active at night
9) Those people who feel that they have no control over their lives are more likely involved in conspiracy
10) The people while lying think more and  make more mental efforts because hiding something requires review of lie and truth consequences
11) Those people who sit upright are more likely feel happiness than who slouch as walk, stand or sit in lazy way 

I hope such facts might be informative..:)

Wednesday, 29 July 2015

Ways to get inner peace..

Well, for a happy life it is not always necessary that we may get all what we want or dream ... Sometimes we need to work by ourselves for making our lives happier as the life is all about ups and downs; & it is we that how we react to ups and downs.. Because our reactions to life affect our "inner peace"; which is proportional to happy life..


So for getting inner peace & happy life following ways are suggested:
1) Be the optimistic and exclude negativity in your life i.e. have a positive look to life.. As the positive reactions to life make you to be true to yourself and with others as well hence lead to inner peace


2) Involve in such things that make you happy or comfortable i.e. Acknowledge your interest ! As reading,drawing,listening music.networking etc.
3) Try to ignore the things which distract you and break relationships, make yourself busy all the time in work, activities and building relations that lead you to inner peace


4) Make gathering with friends or family with whom you feel good that makes you feel good by inside


5) Help others in their difficulties, whatever you can do for others in terms of money, teaching, food,advice do it ! Many studies revealed that helping others make our inner peace and this is most efficiently lead us to happiness by excluding boredom


6) Try to forgive people, who so ever has done with wrong with you; forget and forgive trust me this will guaranteed make you feel great with inner peace and probably 1 day those people will become inspired by you and apologize


7) Fulfill your all responsbilities and commitments with honesty, this would make others happy from you and you will feel comfortable and get rid of self-doubt or criticism 


8) Don't hurt any1, try to be not the cause of trouble to someone but be the reason of goodness


9) Stay connected with GOD by believing in Him and having faith 



 I hope such points could make you feel to try to get inner peace, it is all about "positivity and goodness"; as positive mind and good acts definately lead to "inner peace" which is important for being happy..




Tuesday, 28 July 2015

Reality vs dream

The life which we really want to get is basically a dream not the reality and the life which we actually get is the reality.. There is big difference between "want" & "get", we always think that if we want anything we can get ..this is true that "where there is will there is way"; but sometimes we don't get the life we want and the most important reasons behind this what i have seen is that we are not actually independent in our lives and we have commitments which actually make us away from our wants and we start to live lifeless ... But if we come to know that though we have commitments and we have responsibilities we can still live life which we want; by maintaing balance between both.. If we do all our responsibilities first and make others happy and side by side work for our ambitions then definately we could get happy life .. And the actual reason of our wants is happy life so for happy life it is important to make happy others, fullfil our commitments and eventually with the passage of time we would definately get what we want ...
Make your dreams your real life by firstly fulfilling your commitments & along working on your ambitions