Psychological facts about human behavior

Human behavior is a very chaotic phenomenon, it is impossible or most difficult to understand the behavior of people.. But many psychological studies suggest that human behavior is affected by personality traits, attitude, emotions or motives..

Based on such science following are some interesting facts about human behavior...

1) Introverts can become as good communicators when they find special people to talk than extroverts

2) Boredom is not always negative, it is evident that boring people are tend to do interesting things than those who are not bored

3) Those who have low self-esteem or self-determination are more likely make others feel ashamed or embarrassed

4) 50% of happiness in life is genetically detemined & can't altered, 10% is determined by circumstances as education,income,home etc while 40% of happiness is determined by person's own outlook to life events it depends upon his reactions and way to live life and handling the situations

5) The intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hairs

6) The people in anger tend to make more efforts to get things because anger strives to possession

7) Those who spend more time on internet are more likely lonely, depressed and thinker

8) The people with high IQ tend to stay up late night because the mind increases stimulation, get alert and is active at night

9) Those people who feel that they have no control over their lives are more likely involved in conspiracy

10) The people while lying think more and  make more mental efforts because hiding something requires review of lie and truth consequences

11) Those people who sit upright are more likely feel happiness than who slouch as walk, stand or sit in lazy way 

I hope such facts might be informative..:)

Ways to get inner peace..

Well, for a happy life it is not always necessary that we may get all what we want or dream ... Sometimes we need to work by ourselves for making our lives happier as the life is all about ups and downs; & it is we that how we react to ups and downs.. Because our reactions to life affect our "inner peace"; which is proportional to happy life..

So for getting inner peace & happy life following ways are suggested:

1) Be the optimistic and exclude negativity in your life i.e. have a positive look to life.. As the positive reactions to life make you to be true to yourself and with others as well hence lead to inner peace

2) Involve in such things that make you happy or comfortable i.e. Acknowledge your interest ! As reading,drawing,listening music.networking etc.

3) Try to ignore the things which distract you and break relationships, make yourself busy all the time in work, activities and building relations that lead you to inner peace

4) Make gathering with friends or family with whom you feel good that makes you feel good by inside

5) Help others in their difficulties, whatever you can do for others in terms of money, teaching, food,advice do it ! Many studies revealed that helping others make our inner peace and this is most efficiently lead us to happiness by excluding boredom

6) Try to forgive people, who so ever has done with wrong with you; forget and forgive trust me this will guaranteed make you feel great with inner peace and probably 1 day those people will become inspired by you and apologize

7) Fulfill your all responsbilities and commitments with honesty, this would make others happy from you and you will feel comfortable and get rid of self-doubt or criticism 

8) Don't hurt any1, try to be not the cause of trouble to someone but be the reason of goodness

9) Stay connected with GOD by believing in Him and having faith 

 I hope such points could make you feel to try to get inner peace, it is all about "positivity and goodness"; as positive mind and good acts definately lead to "inner peace" which is important for being happy..

Reality vs dream

The life which we really want to get is basically a dream not the reality and the life which we actually get is the reality.. There is big difference between "want" & "get", we always think that if we want anything we can get ..this is true that "where there is will there is way"; but sometimes we don't get the life we want and the most important reasons behind this what i have seen is that we are not actually independent in our lives and we have commitments which actually make us away from our wants and we start to live lifeless ... But if we come to know that though we have commitments and we have responsibilities we can still live life which we want; by maintaing balance between both.. If we do all our responsibilities first and make others happy and side by side work for our ambitions then definately we could get happy life .. And the actual reason of our wants is happy life so for happy life it is important to make happy others, fullfil our commitments and eventually with the passage of time we would definately get what we want ...

Make your dreams your real life by firstly fulfilling your commitments & along working on your ambitions